We are
home. That seems simple enough. I don’t think it’s as simple as it seems
though. I find the kind of travel that
we engage in to have an emotional component.
I don’t mean a casual emotional component as in isn’t it nice to be
home, or what a nice place we visited. I
mean a profound emotional element as in missing the places and people who were
part of our adventure, and a bit of shock at returning to the rat race. The last few days I would find myself
thinking of the people and places we had been and the tears would start to well
up. It was a very intense feeling.
Leave her, Johnny
Oh the
times was hard and the wages low
Leave her, Johnny, leave her
And the grub was bad and the gales did blow
And it's time for us to leave her
Leave her, Johnny, leave her
And the grub was bad and the gales did blow
And it's time for us to leave her
Leave
her, Johnny, leave her
Oh, leave her, Johnny, leave her
For the voyage is done and the winds do blow
And it's time for us to leave her
Oh, leave her, Johnny, leave her
For the voyage is done and the winds do blow
And it's time for us to leave her
Kristi and I first started singing this song to
ourselves as we listened to Kimber’s Men sing it on a CD we bought from Joe
Stead. We never did really learn the
song, but the sentiment of a journey that has been hard, and trying yet somehow
rewarding, and difficult to let go of has stuck with us when we hear this
song.
There are some definite perks to being
home. Our kingsize bed is one of the
most immediate, and pleasurable. It is
nice to be with our “stuff”, although I have grown unaccustomed to using my
stuff over the last month. It didn’t
take long. We didn’t watch much
television while we were gone, but then we don’t watch television when we are
home. We didn’t watch movies while we
were gone either, and maybe we’ll do some of that now.
Kristi, Val, Jimmy and Steve at Jiva's home in Blyth, Northumberland - One Last Picture |
For me there is always an element of
wondering where the illusion ends, and reality begins when evaluating the
journey of life. I hypothesize that most
of us have a lot of romance in our perceptions, and I thoroughly believe that
all of us, without exception, have something we believe that is absolutely, unequivocally untrue. That’s a pretty easy thing to say, as there
is new knowledge coming into the world all of the time, and beliefs are being
crushed, and dismissed daily. Most of us
probably don’t think about that, but I’m certain that it’s true. On the other hand, that may be the thing that
I believe that isn’t true.
I have always been the kind of person who
is entertained by almost anything that I don’t understand. Maybe it’s more true for me to say that I’m
entertained by things that I only partially understand. That means that travel in a foreign country
is immensely entertaining to me all of the time that I am there because I only
partially understand so much, and thoroughly understand so little. I also feel the struggle of people everywhere
I go, and have a great empathy for them.
At least this is true in the best of circumstances where I understand
enough of their language etc. to be able to take in their life stories.
Does being on an airplane change how I look? |
We were asked a number of times whether we
would be coming back on another tour. This
was always asked with a hopeful
note. We have been better performers,
and I have had a better repertoire of songs every tour. We are currently thinking about beginning to
book another tour. We may begin the
process soon.
FROM KRISTI
Home again. It always serves my sagging spirits now and
then to, as my mother would say, "count my blessings". So before I even left Tacoma for this trip I
began to savor the moments of my life here.
That is to say, I anticipated being homesick by drinking in what I knew
I'd most miss. Parting was such sweet
sorrow. I trained my eyes to drink in
the unrivalled beauty of the snow-capped Olympics and Cascades from every
elevated distance. The towering heights
of the evergreens looked more precious than anyone else's trees in the
world. The rugged and forbidding
wilderness beyond my views made me appreciate what's left that is yet untouched
by human cultivation in this state. I
treasured my usual treat from my neighborhood chocolatier, Johnson’s. I luxuriated in my pillow-top king-size bed
with down quilted covers. I roamed
around my rooms feeling the roominess of them, and felt queenly with my very
own appliances and furniture. The very
straight-ness and width of the city streets beckoned me with their simple
stoplights and ample curbs. Not to
mention all my peeps! The safety and
familiarity of everything seemed precious, not boring. And now I'm really home after all the stress
of getting here from those tens of thousands of miles of distance, the ordinary
never looked so extraordinary.